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Buddy story · A scare

The week it got frightening

Bo went to hospital with abdominal pain. Viv was the person who told her to go, and has been careful ever since about how she tells that story.

Viv and Bo
Paired
April 2025
Cadence
Tuesdays
Status
ongoing

Bo had described a pain in a Tuesday message, in passing, at the end, after three lines about a dog. Viv had read the symptoms guide twice because of her own reflux and recognised the shape of what Bo was describing, and wrote back one line telling her to be seen that day.

Bo went. It was gallstones, it was treated, and she was fine within a fortnight. It could easily have been nothing, and Viv is insistent about this: she was not clever, she had simply read a page, and the page is on this site for everybody.

What changed in the pairing afterwards was the order of the message. They both now put anything physical at the top, not at the bottom after the dog. It sounds trivial. Both of them think it is the single most useful thing they have changed.

Tomás asks new members to read this story, because the detail that matters is that Bo was not hiding a symptom. She had genuinely filed it as boring.

I did not know anything. I had read a page on this site and I recognised three words. That is all it was, and that is why the page exists.

I put it last in the message because I thought it was nothing. Now anything physical goes first, even when I am sure it is nothing.

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