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What my therapist calls the moving target

Started 19 September 2024 · 15 replies · 173 hearts · read 2.6k times

EsmeAix-en-Provence, FR · 19 September 2024
1.8 years ago

A question rather than an update: What my therapist calls the moving target

I have been sitting on this for a month.

I am aware some of this may be nothing. I would still like to know whether other people have had it, because I have spent a fortnight assuming I am the only one.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers this.

Sorry for the length. If anyone has been here, I would very much like to hear it.

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GwilymCaernarfon, UK
#1

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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JonahFacilitatorCork, Ireland
#2

I will leave this open for a few more days and then add it to the circle's resources, because the answers here are better than anything I would have written.

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TiborBratislava, SK
#3

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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LulaBournemouth, UK
#4

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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MimiHong Kong
#5

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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Obi OEnugu, NG
#6

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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ZenBristol, UK
#7

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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ObieNashville, TN
#8

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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NissaHaifa, IL
#9

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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GwythFishguard, UK
#10

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

What helped was lowering my own expectations of the week rather than trying to hold the week together.

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RinManchester, UK
#11

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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OsricSalisbury, UK
#12

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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ClémenceNantes, FR
#13

I would take that to a clinician rather than to us, and I would do it this week. Not because it is definitely serious — because it is the sort of thing that is much easier to rule out than to worry about.

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JonahFacilitatorCork, Ireland
#14

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

Thank you for writing this. I am not going to add information to it. I am going to say that what you have described is very common and very rarely said out loud.

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OrsolyaBudapest, HU
#15

Mine lasted about seven weeks and then lifted over a few days. I cannot tell you why. I can tell you it lifted.

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