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What my dermatologist explained about the shedding phase

Started 25 June 2024 · 19 replies · 244 hearts · read 3.3k times

GroverPortland, ME · 25 June 2024
2.1 years ago

What my dermatologist explained about the shedding phase — putting it in its own thread so it does not get lost in the check-in.

Something is going on with my body and I would like to know whether it is ordinary.

The thing that has surprised me most is how much of this is about other people rather than about me.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers this.

What I keep tripping on is not the physical bit. It is the not knowing whether what I am experiencing is normal, and having nobody to ask who is not either selling something or frightened for me.

Not looking for a plan. Just company and whatever anyone has found.

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NyreeChristchurch, NZ
#1

I asked my nurse the same question and she said something I have repeated ever since: that the aim is to keep you on treatment, not to get you up the schedule.

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PerrinNice, FR
#2

the opening post said something I want to sit with for a second.

Please do not read the comments under news articles about this. I lost a fortnight to that.

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FabianBasel, CH
#3

Building on what the opening post wrote rather than answering the original question.

I have been in this circle a year and this question comes round every few months. It is not a silly question. It is the question.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#4

Gently: you have apologised three times in a post where you have done nothing that requires an apology.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#5

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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CoralieMarseille, FR
#6

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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MarthaCork, IE
#7

What helped was lowering my own expectations of the week rather than trying to hold the week together.

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MairéadMayo, IE
#8

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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MargueriteQuebec City, CA
#9

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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BlySheffield, UK
#10

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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GudrunAkureyri, IS
#11

Similar here, and mine turned out to be a completely unrelated deficiency picked up on bloods.

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WystanCheltenham, UK
#12

Yes. All of this. I had the same in my third month and I remember thinking there was something specifically wrong with me, which there was not.

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AnnikaStockholm, SE
#13

Mine lasted about seven weeks and then lifted over a few days. I cannot tell you why. I can tell you it lifted.

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DillyNewport, UK
#14

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

Two things that helped me, neither of them clever: small amounts more often, and drinking a lot more than felt necessary.

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OttoPrague, CZ
#15

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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IkeChicago, IL
#16

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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NyalaAddis Ababa, ET
#17

Gently disagreeing with the reply above, or rather adding the other half of it.

I did exactly the same and felt terrible about it. You have not done anything wrong.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#18

I will leave this open for a few more days and then add it to the circle's resources, because the answers here are better than anything I would have written.

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GroverPortland, ME
#19

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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