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Cost with no end date and how I think about that

Started 1 February 2025 · 17 replies · 175 hearts · read 3.2k times

NadirCasablanca, MA · 1 February 2025
1.5 years ago

Something I have been sitting with: Cost with no end date and how I think about that Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience.

I have a letter in front of me and I do not know what it actually says.

Here is where I am. The medication side has been more or less as described, and the part nobody prepared me for is everything around it: what to say to people, how to plan a week, and how to tell the difference between a thing to endure and a thing to raise.

I have written down what has actually happened, in order, because I find that more useful than my summary of it.

I will report back either way, because I have been helped by other people's follow-ups more than by their questions.

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HettieLancaster, UK
#1

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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SaffHastings, UK
#2

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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OttoPrague, CZ
#3

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#4

Noticing out loud that this conversation has drifted into comparison. That happens without anyone intending it and it does not help anyone. Let us come back to the person who asked.

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GwennoPwllheli, UK
#5

Please do not read the comments under news articles about this. I lost a fortnight to that.

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LlianCarmarthen, UK
#6

I asked my nurse the same question and she said something I have repeated ever since: that the aim is to keep you on treatment, not to get you up the schedule.

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PeronelCanterbury, UK
#7

Similar here, and mine turned out to be a completely unrelated deficiency picked up on bloods.

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GavinDundee, UK
#8

Reading the reply above, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

I have been in this circle a year and this question comes round every few months. It is not a silly question. It is the question.

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ZoëHackney, UK
#9

Yes. All of this. I had the same in my third month and I remember thinking there was something specifically wrong with me, which there was not.

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IlyaAlmaty, KZ
#10

Mine lasted about seven weeks and then lifted over a few days. I cannot tell you why. I can tell you it lifted.

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MoBradford, UK
#11

Two things that helped me, neither of them clever: small amounts more often, and drinking a lot more than felt necessary.

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NadirCasablanca, MA
#12

the reply above said something I want to sit with for a second.

I would take that to a clinician rather than to us, and I would do it this week. Not because it is definitely serious — because it is the sort of thing that is much easier to rule out than to worry about.

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HettieLancaster, UK
#13

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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SaffHastings, UK
#14

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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OttoPrague, CZ
#15

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#16

Two things, both boring. First, none of us can tell you what to take. Second, the conversation you want to have is with your prescriber, and we can help you write it down.

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GwennoPwllheli, UK
#17

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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