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Tuesday 13 January 2026

What would you say to yourself if you were a friend?

Try writing it in the second person. It changes what comes out. — asked by Jonah

GwilymCaernarfon, UK

What I would say to a friend: this is hard and you are doing it anyway. What I say to myself is considerably worse.

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InêsPorto, PT

Booked something to look forward to in six weeks.

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WinnieCarlisle, UK

A colleague brought me a tea without being asked. Whole day improved.

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MaryamBirmingham, UK

Told somebody they had helped me. They had no idea.

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AriaAuckland, NZ

I would tell a friend to go to bed. So I am going to bed.

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BodhiByron Bay, AU

Left the washing up until morning. Revolutionary.

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TabbyMargate, UK

Let somebody help me. That is the whole entry and it was harder than it sounds.

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Nev That sounds like something to raise this week rather than at the next review.

GwenBangor, UK

I let a bad week be a bad week rather than making it mean something.

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OdileMontreal, CA

Booked something to look forward to in six weeks.

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MoBradford, UK

I stopped apologising in an email and it took me four attempts.

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Bly Please be as unreasonable about the hair as you like. It is not trivial.

OskarWarsaw, PL

I noticed I was speaking to myself like a disappointed manager and stopped mid-sentence.

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Bramwell Ten years of that mask. Enormous.

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