What I would say to a friend: this is hard and you are doing it anyway. What I say to myself is considerably worse.
Member since January 2025
Bramwell
Fourth Bram-adjacent handle. We have a group chat.
Conversations they started
The steps I broke it into, written out
Needle phobia
Coming off while pregnant — what my obstetrician said
Coming off
Does the shorter needle actually help
Needle phobia
What helped and what did not, honestly
The plateau
Recent check-in answers
Carried feed bags without my back going. That is the measure on a farm.
Nothing until two, then a proper meal, then nothing. That is my shape at the moment and I have stopped fighting it.
Hardest part is that I am supposed to be the one who copes.