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The fortnight I should have asked for help sooner

Started 27 June 2025 · 21 replies · 198 hearts · read 1.9k times

LeifTrondheim, NO · 27 June 2025
about a year ago

The fortnight I should have asked for help sooner Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think.

I have been sitting on this for a month.

I have written down what has actually happened, in order, because I find that more useful than my summary of it.

What I would find most useful is not advice. It is somebody describing what their version of this was, and how long it went on for.

Sorry for the length. If anyone has been here, I would very much like to hear it.

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BryherIsles of Scilly, UK
#1

It got worse before it got better for me, which I wish someone had said. About ten days of worse.

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LeniLeipzig, DE
#3

I am about four months behind you and I have been dreading exactly this, so thank you for writing it down before I got there.

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JunoBrighton, UK
#4

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

Yes to the burping. It is real, it is unbeautiful, and it does settle.

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AbramAmsterdam, NL
#5

I did exactly the same and felt terrible about it. You have not done anything wrong.

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OdessaLviv, UA
#6

Practical, boring answer: write the three questions down before you go in. I have never once remembered them otherwise.

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HeddaCopenhagen, DK
#7

the reply above — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

Have you got anyone who can be with you when you do it? It made an enormous difference to me and I felt silly asking.

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MairéadMayo, IE
#8

The thing that changed it for me was going slower, agreed with my prescriber. I am not suggesting you do that. I am saying the conversation exists.

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TamzinPoole, UK
#9

Different experience here, for balance. Mine did not improve and in the end I stopped, and that was the right call for me. Both outcomes exist.

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AikoOsaka, JP
#10

What the reply above described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

The phrase that unlocked my appointment was asking what specifically she wanted me to watch for. It moved us from reassurance to a plan in about thirty seconds.

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IlyaAlmaty, KZ
#11

Building on what the reply above wrote rather than answering the original question.

No advice, just recognition. That sounds exhausting and I am sorry you are in it.

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BelCroydon, UK
#12

I keep a two-line diary and it is the only reason I could answer this question about myself. Worth starting even now.

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TaaviTallinn, EE
#13

Can I gently push back on one thing? Not the substance, just the framing — you have written twice that you should be coping better. Who told you that?

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BessLouth, UK
#14

My pharmacist was more use than anyone. Ten minutes at the counter, no appointment, no charge.

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JontyOxford, UK
#15

For what it is worth, the trial data on this is thinner than the confidence of the internet would suggest. Worth knowing when you read the posts.

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MargueriteQuebec City, CA
#16

Coming back to this a fortnight later to say it settled. Leaving the update because I hate reading threads that stop.

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IzzyWatford, UK
#17

I am the person who had the frightening version of this. I went in, it was investigated, and it was not what anyone feared. Going in is the whole of my advice.

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KaiVancouver, CA
#18

the reply above — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

My experience was very boring, which I offer as data. Some of us just get a dull time of it.

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MintaColchester, UK
#19

What helped was lowering my own expectations of the week rather than trying to hold the week together.

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JonahFacilitatorCork, Ireland
#20

Thank you for writing this. I am not going to add information to it. I am going to say that what you have described is very common and very rarely said out loud.

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PippaTruro, UK
#21

Please do not read the comments under news articles about this. I lost a fortnight to that.

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